Unlike the man in this photograph, my expression was deadpan, but inside I cringed. And then wept inconsolably. M y wife and I had an appointment on Wednesday evening this week with a behavioral specialist (A Ph. D. candidate here at Michigan State University), who will be running a 15-week social group, part of a larger study in which our son will participate, for children on the Autism spectrum. Everything went fairly well until she casually dropped some extremely rude terms into the conversation. Bear in mind, the three us us sat in an office suite, the couple to whom this specialist spoke were two educated, well-spoken, professionally dressed adults, who she had never met before, and my wife and I were not speaking like this. Typically we don't anyway. Suddenly, I was back in the non-union stockroom three plus decades ago unloading trucks with a manual pallet jack. I thought I had left that kind of thing behind years ago. Guess not. To paraphrase those